Alright Ladies and Gents,
The time has come. You've met the girl, maybe in a class, maybe through a friend; Regardless of the situation, you know the person, but not very well, yet you think that you could see yourself in a relationship with this person. This is the perfect time to decide whether or not you want to go into the friend-zone or the dating scene.
So here we go:
Step 1: Identify your feelings towards the person and establish your intent.
This basically means do you want to be in a relationship boyfriend girlfriend thing, or do you just want a friend to go to the movies with and dance with at clubs. As for establishing intent, the question here is how far do you want to go with this relationship aka when you start dating do you want it to be inclusive, are you looking at a long term relationship or just going with the flow?
Step 2: Do some investigating and find out what's in common, then choose a few places to go on a date.
This is important because, although you don't have to already know where you want to go when you ask, it's best to have some suggestions (be sure to be open to her suggestions too). But wherever you go, make it somewhere both of you would enjoy, for instance, if you are both active people then try an amusement park. If you're into art, try a art gallery. If you would rather sit down and talk maybe go to a nice restaurant.
Step 3: Ask them out.
This is easy, approach the person and then ask them out. Seriously just say, "how would you like to go out on a date." or "I'd love to take you out on a date sometime." What's acceptable: in person or on the phone, seriously no text messaging, or instant messaging or any other virtual communication. Stay classy, keep it real on the phone or in person.
Go on your date and be awesome.
The end
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