Looks matter. Let us help

Alright, summer is coming up fast and you know what that means... Time to go to the beach!  If you want to get in shape to look good at the beach here's a site with all kinds of workouts- http://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/main.html

This one is for the ladies….and also the guys!

So, you are having trouble finding “the one” or at least someone you are interested in? Well, the problem may be that your standards are too high. Yeah, you want to be attracted to a person and find common ground, but you should probably stick to your “league”. Okay, so you still want to date the “Rock Star” or the Professional Athlete? Well, there are a lot of people who want to go out with this type, but there are only so many Justin Timberlake’s or other hot celebrities to go around. Don’t overlook the cute guy or girl you sit next to in class or see walk down the hallway just because they aren’t famous or super rich. You can be happy with someone other than the person you have posters all over your room of. Try to find someone that you share common interests with or that you could actually see yourself dating. Yes, it’s fun to daydream about dating your favorite celebrity, but when it comes to your real dating life, have your sights set on someone you could actual come into contact with!

How to ask a girl out in 3 easy steps.

Alright Ladies and Gents, 
The time has come. You've met the girl, maybe in a class, maybe through a friend; Regardless of the situation, you know the person, but not very well, yet you think that you could see yourself in a relationship with this person. This is the perfect time to decide whether or not you want to go into the friend-zone or the dating scene.
So here we go:

Step 1: Identify your feelings towards the person and establish your intent.
This basically means do you want to be in a relationship boyfriend girlfriend thing, or do you just want a friend to go to the movies with and dance with at clubs. As for establishing intent, the question here is how far do you want to go with this relationship aka when you start dating do you want it to be inclusive, are you looking at a long term relationship or just going with the flow?

Step 2: Do some investigating and find out what's in common, then choose a few places to go on a date.
This is important because, although you don't have to already know where you want to go when you ask, it's best to have some suggestions (be sure to be open to her suggestions too). But wherever you go, make it somewhere both of you would enjoy, for instance, if you are both active people then try an amusement park. If you're into art, try a art gallery. If you would rather sit down and talk maybe go to a nice restaurant.

Step 3: Ask them out.

This is easy, approach the person and then ask them out. Seriously just say, "how would you like to go out on a date." or "I'd love to take you out on a date sometime."  What's acceptable: in person or on the phone, seriously no text messaging, or instant messaging or any other virtual communication. Stay classy, keep it real on the phone or in person.

Go on your date and be awesome.

The end

Cleanliness is next to Sexiness

Personal Hygiene

Most of this should be obvious, but if you’re an idiot follow these rules.

1. Wear clean clothes and shoes
2. Brush your teeth twice a day
3. Floss once a day
4. Take a shower every day
5. Wash your hands after using the bathroom
6. Use deodorant
7. Cut your finger and toe nails
8. Shave, most people think mustaches are creepy

Blogs within a Blog! Blogception!!!

Hey lovers of life,
Sure we may be the BEST blog about dating and relationships out there but there are others tooo!!!
Here at Don't Blog and Tell we like to get the word about everything, we also realize that there is some competition in the love blogging world and we like to spread the news about all of them!  So here is some great links to some other bogs so you can check them out tooo!!!

http://www.ablogaboutlove.com/

http://leloveimage.blogspot.com/

http://www.ourblogoflove.com/

http://blogsoflove.com/

Best, '

The Passion Professionals

Dress to Impress!

Alright Ladies and Gentlemen,

Here's the deal, people will judge you based on the way you look. Call it shallow, call it judge-mental but it's the truth, people get preconceived notions based on how you look.  Don't worry though you can control this, if you want people to think you're badass, then you dress badass. Well I'm about to hit you with some resources to let you buy some classy clothes, for cheap.
Ladies first:
Check it, this site called As Seen On Screen has a ton of great outfits for ladies. Focusing on trendy and artistic clothing for cheap.


Dudes:
You have got to check out Jackthreads.
This site is a membership only discount site that carries a lot of different brands and as a personal user I will tell you they have quality clothes of all designs for really great prices.

Both:
Take a look at http://www.bluefly.com/ and http://www.shopbop.com/ for some more great deals. Good luck and let us know if you like it!

Let's start at the very beginning!

Did you finally build up enough confidence to ask that special someone out on a date? Well, now that you have a date, you need to get prepared for it. Even if you have known this person a long time, first dates can still be awkward so here are some helpful tips to get you started on your date and impress that special guy or gal.

First off, please just be you. The reason that person is going out with you in the first place is because they like you for you. Don’t try to be fake and someone you’re not. Also don’t give too much information. Your date doesn’t want to hear about your exes or your deep dark secrets quite yet. Just start off with basic information, like what you put on your Facebook profile.

Second, don’t go on and on about yourself. Be a good listener and keep the conversation flowing without either of you taking over the whole thing. You want to be able to find out enough about the other person to see if you find common ground and you also want to give your date some information on you to see how well you click. Without common interests and ideas, you will most likely see your relationship go nowhere. Why would you want to waste your time on someone you have no future with when you could be finding a real relationship?

Lastly, try to have fun on the date. Yes, you may be a little nervous at first, but overcome it and make the best of it. Don’t take life too seriously and meet someone new. You may be hesitant at first, but just think this first date may develop into a special relationship. 

Follow these tips and you will have this:

 Not this:

Good luck and tell us what happens!!! :D

Why do all the Motocross Racers have smokin' hot girlfriends? [Case Study]

While I was watching the X Games last year I noticed something interesting.  It seemed like almost all of the motocross guys had hot girlfriends.  Most MX riders don’t make a ton of money so they are not gold diggers.  The reason these guys all have hot girlfriends is because they have a ton of confidence.  Think about how confident you have to be to do what they do.  If they screw up they might die.  If you look at the pictures below you might recognize the first two, but I really doubt anyone knows who the third guy is because he’s never been in the X Games.  You can tell all these guys are confident just by the way they stand.  So, if you want a hot girlfriend get some confidence, or learn how to fake it.

FMX rider Todd Potter

Josh Hansen, gold medalist of the 2008 and 2009 X Games for Supercross

FMX rider Brody Wilson

Guys... time to get a bike?

Stephen is in da House!

What's up? I'm Steven and if you are one of the billions of dudes confused by women hit me up. Every girl is different and I will come up with a unique answer for your problem no matter how bad it seems.

Alright lovers time to meet Michael!

Hey there all you singles in search of love,

I'm Michael C, the ultimate love expert. I went to the college of love, majoring in flirting with a minor in stunning good looks. I want to help you learn all about flirting, relationships, and how to prepare yourself on dates! I'll teach you how to dress, look, smell, taste, kiss, date, and everything in between ;] Remember don't hesitate to post comments asking for personal advice or if you want to share your own story!

XXXOOO
-Michael C

Hey ladies and gents, it's Lindsay!!!

Hi! My name is Lindsay and I am here to help you with your love problems. And let me tell you, I am the right person to be helping you. I have gone through my relationship ups and downs. I’ve fallen for my best friend, been cheated on, and felt like I’ll never find love. The thing is you just have to find that right person and never stop believing in yourself. Now, I’ve found that special someone and what to help you do the same. So over the coming weeks I will be giving you tips on how to flirt, what to do (and not do) on dates, and how to really tell if they’re “the one”. I look forward to helping you find love and develop a special relationship.


XOXO
-Lindsay!

Introduction Time!

All this week the Passion Professionals will be introducing our fantastic selves and telling you all about our love and relationship experiences!!!

XOXO
-Passion Professionals

3, 2, 1...BLAST OFF!

Welcome to the latest and greatest dating and relationship advice blog!


If you need help finding a date or have questions about love, life or anything else WE CAN HELP YOU!
We offer free general dating advice and FREE personal relationship answers. If you post a question our team will answer it personally!!!
If you are an amour amateur, than our team, the Passion Professionals can help you score that guy/girl of your dreams!!
Stay tuned for introductions, and our very first advice post!!!
XOXO

-Passion Professionals ;)